This is the hardest thing about most undertakings in life

Exercise and weight loss

Relationships

Career

Entrepreneurship

Parenting

Writing or side hustles

Overcoming struggles

A few months ago I wrote this story about my weight loss journey and it’s exactly about this challenge.

Consider parenting. I have four kids. The older ones are two teenage boys. They have complicated characters. For many years we’d wondered — will it ever get easier? Will they stop fighting? I am not talking about our boys being difficult in a cute way. It was damn hard and it still is, often. Now, for the first time in many years, we are seeing them mature. It’s becoming easier. But it’s taken years!

Consider a new job. Many months to get to know your team, and your boss. Months to learn your company and your role, even if you’re coming in supposedly prepared. That’s easily two years before you can become good at your job.

Entrepreneurship — nearly impossible to become successful fast. Getting started, often struggling, often pivoting — easily a couple of years before you see a viable path, let alone a successful path.

Relationships. Think of how easy it is to get excited about a new relationship, to fall in love, to think you’re in love, to start dreaming. But the beginning means so little! So many relationships end, often in pain. It takes…