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Ten life and business lessons. A note to myself (and maybe advice to some)
3 min readNov 14, 2023
In no particular order, based on my experience and life journey.
- Do not ever turn down an opportunity to meet with another human being, whether a friend, colleague, acquaintance, neighbor or even a stranger. I’m an introvert, and I don’t like being in the company of other people, but I never-ever regretted making an effort to meet someone. A seemingly mundane coffee can change the trajectory of your life.
- Do not avoid difficult conversations. I’ve been in debt a lot, for example, or struggled in business. It’s tempting not to pick up the phone. There is only downside to not communicating. There is never any upside.
- Apply the ego filter to anything you say, in person or on the internet. Ask yourself: is there genuine value, to me or someone else, in what I am about to say or post, or am I trying to feed my ego? If the latter, shut up.
- Do not do anything outward-oriented if you have alcohol in your blood. By outward-oriented, I’m referring to work, business, or posting something in the digital space. To take it further, don’t drink in any professional setting, even in a social setting, when everyone’s drinking. Drinking is unprofessional. You will never sound smarter compared to when you’re sober.
- Do not pre-announce that you will do something, and certainly don’t announce self-imposed deadlines. Just do, not say.
- Better beg for forgiveness than ask for…