Last night my wife went to bed naked

It’s not like it’s something super rare. But after almost twenty-three years together it’s not something trivial either. On most days we go to bed tired and dressed up, at least partially. We often go to bed at different times. We sleep on the opposite sides of our king-size bed. We don’t express self-pity (well, sometimes we do) but there’s no doubt that at the end (and not just at the end) of most days we feel fatigued and overwhelmed. By raising our four kids. By our dreams and struggles. By life. Sometimes we go to bed arguing. Of course, on those nights we sleep on the opposite sides of…