I struggle with these types of confessions. I’m emphathetic on the one hand. On the other hand, it was your choice to marry (and it was a mistake - fine, we all make mistakes) and until you formally break free /separate why go so public with your loathing to the entire world? Not that there are rules when to go or not go public but I think certain boundaries have to be honored when you’re still formally a partner with someone, whether in personal life or business or wherever (say sports)